Sorry to see you feel that way Griz
As i poster on T'Bricks and here, Im not seeing much difference in terms of politeness and in terms of help from other members i recieve. Both forums seem very good, very polite and very helpfull.
Admittidly i havent been around here as long as some people, so unless its something "behind the scenes" i dont know about
Anyway Griz, see you around onn T'Bricks eh