tempted to buy xc60

[needy]

hi everyone ( newbie just signed up), it's time for me to change the family motor(Ford s max, 155000 miles on the clock)myself and the mrs have been looking at motors for weeks , regularly going to available car for a look around, she prefers the higher driving position, to be honest never thought about a Volvo we've looked at Toyota rav4's Honda crv's Mazda cx5's BMW x3's and BMW active tourer's but today we noticed they had a couple of xc60's in and we both liked them so after getting home I've been doing a bit of reading about them (I like the 2 litre d4 r design manual. probably 15 plate) and there seems to be a lot of problems with them and very poor reliability issues very low in the tables for it, so I thought only place to find out the truth would be an owners forum. read a few things on here and it does look like there are problems.
any honest opinions would be greatly received
thanks